Tuesday, August 17, 2010

从以前就知道,自己脸长得凶,容易吓到人,所以习惯性的让自己微笑,既不吓人,也可以让自己保持心情愉快!久而久之也就习惯了!

不是没被骂过,以前练球时教练总会骂我不认真,就因我常笑着打球,那时总是理直气壮的回答说,笑是我疏解压力的方法,教练拿我没办法,也就由得我了!教练的忍让,让我以为道理在我这边,也就不觉得自己有问题了!

事隔多年,不一样的环境,却面对着同样的问题!笑着做工,是不是就表示工作不认真呢?美莲叫我认真点,别玩玩!很想反驳她,脑海却想起教练的话!两个不一样的人,说着同样的话,是否表示真的错在我呢!长久以来的坚持,却发现事实不是如此!我不想摆着脸作工,现实却由不得我,不然吃亏的就是我自己了!我了解是必要的,却不赞同,因我觉得有得笑不笑,等到笑不出时才来后悔,就太不值得了!

6 comments:

  1. haha...~i've been thinking of
    this issue recently...~~nw when
    i joined my company, i still
    behave as before...making fun and talking lot
    with colleagues...

    mmm....actually it's more frenly...but really will let people feel whether u r serious or not on the issue or the things u handling...so now i dont talk or be more serious when im doing the things...but they
    said i look so pressured to do it (if i dont laugh anymore)...

    or how if i equalize " serious face = quality of work " ....it seems doesnt make sense right ? cz quality of work depend on ur ability and responsibility...not on the
    expression...thats only mind thinking changing the 'face expression' ~~ if u can finish the task well, whats wrong with ur attitude right now ? boss also doesnt care if u can earn profit for him...

    it's a balance...im trying to talk less as well during working hour ...haha ~~ working environment may change u ...just be urself...
    if u have transformed to become another person...that's still u ....~ so just be urself....^_^

    ONLY A ROBOT WORK WITHOUT EXPRESSION !! hahahaha

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  2. ahzau u too over lar... tat day i greet u but u ignore me... so sad...

    AngCheng,做你自己就好了。会笑的菁菁比较漂亮!!别人不喜欢看你笑着做事就不要笑给他们看,笑给自己看就好!!要开心就好!!

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  3. u can smile when u c fb ma..
    don smile at yr col la.. haha..
    u can smaile once a while while talking to them
    don smile all d way lo..
    be urself ^^

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  4. 你太可爱了。其实,笑是没错的。
    可是在大家认真的时候避免哈哈大笑就行了嘛。
    别不笑了。你不知道哪天人家会因为你脸上的笑而不小心爱上你~
    keep smiling~

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  6. haha..i also always kena here..so unhappy when kena ppl cakap..but pandai2 la..laugh must c situation and ppl lo..

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